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My boyfriend has a huge penis and i'm afraid to have sex with him?
His penis is 9,5 inches long (24 cm) and 7,5 inches (19 cm) in circumference. Before him I've had sex only whit my ex who was average, or maybe below and even that hurt sometimes in some positions, so i'm worried that this is way to much for me. So far I've only given him a 'handjob' because it probably wouldnt fit in to my mouth, but I know that he expects something more to happen soon cause we are together for 6 weeks now. What should I do? Ha do I tell him that?
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Answerer 1
Tell him what you told us. I'm sure he's heard it before. Bigger is not better when it comes to a penis. The reason you hear this is because of porno movies that like a guy with 10" or bigger. Get some Super Glide and tell him to go slow. If he doesn't, he could tear your vagina.
o 4 days ago
Answerer 2
7 inches in circumfrence? what the hell.. i dont think thats right.
o 4 days ago
Answerer 3
Your vagina is very resilient and it will accommodate a penis that may be too wide to go into your mouth. You may find the length uncomfortable though. If you are worried, have sex the first time with you on top, straddling him, so that you have some control over the depth of penetration.
If you can discuss it openly with him, ask him if he has had problems with previous girl friends and how they overcame them.
o 4 days ago
Answerer 4
Oh wow i wish my bf's was that big. How can it be 7.5 in. in circumference and 9.5 long. Wouldn't it look square like? I would def. try and have sex, but if it's not good then you need to let him know. Try astroglide!
o 2 days ago
Answerer 5
haha how do you know did you do it with ruler??????yea tell him lol
o 4 days ago
Answerer 6
Vaginas expand, try using something of those dimensions yourself, try a cucumber or sex toy. If its uncomfortable, try other things to satisfy one another, or tell him not to put it all the way in.
o 4 days ago
Answerer 7
Yes you should discuss it with him and tell him to be gentle inserting his schlong in you and not to expect you to take all of it, at least not at first. Some women cannot handle over 6 to 7 inches in length but most women can handle large girths. My wife has tried 9 inches a couple times (not mine of course) and couldn't handle it but according to her she has done quite well with 8 inches a few times. She actually liked the sex with the guys who had 8 inches better once she got used to it but now she is satisfied with my 7". Seven inches around I'm sure will give you trouble getting it into your mouth but if you can it's going to blow you away with excitement. lol
o 4 days ago
Answerer 8
get a new boyfriend with normal size penis.
o 3 days ago
Answerer 9
wow, that is pretty big, i think you should try it. it might hurt but after a while, it might feel good.
o 4 days ago
Answerer 10
just do him
o 4 days ago
Answerer 11
may be you took the circumference of the balls
o 3 days ago
Answerer 12
a woman was made to please a man you need to do what ever it takes to give him the pleasure he deserves he cant help it that hes been blessed you can do it
o 4 days ago
Answerer 13
From the dimension you have given. His penis is out of proportion. His penis will look like a tree stump.
o 2 days ago
Answerer 14
1. Unless he has at least a band on your finger with some pretty stones of promise and a day set, he has no right to be expecting anything.
2. If you've determined that the time is right and your expectations and conditions have been met, having a good sized penis doesn't make him mentally challenged, that like some said you need to take control over him. Probably anything but! All likelihood is that he is just as concerned about making it as beautiful an experience as possible and not causing you discomfort as you are, maybe more.
Unless he's been so desensitized by circumcision that his glans lack feeling or sensitivity, he can tell exactly where he's at knows how to hold back his passion for your benefit. He can feel your cervix and ever little bit and can tell by that feel when to not go further and he knows how to sweetly ask you questions. Relax and give him the freedom to please you and show you his best. If your up tight and tense, don't even start!
Your vagina will give way to birthing a baby, and he comes no where near that diameter so you may find it to be a really good feeling surprise. Again for for length, he's not expecting to put it all in and communicating is the most important part, even if he has an average penis. His long penis makes some unique positions possible where some space takes place and an average penis would be better for close in activity.
One position that a longer penis works great is for him to behind you with his penetration into your Lady part with your back resting against his chest and him hugging you close, kissing your neck and doing the kind of hands contact that you love. His subtle movement would be in the background of the beautiful experience as it all comes together for the best emotional experience and physical expression of Love that you could imagine, Just one example, but enough ... aside from becoming too graphic.
If your not serious about this guy, or don't plan on staying with him, don't do intercourse because your going to be doing comparing in the future with the guy who you want to mean something special, and that's not fair to him.
Wanting the best for you, and I know what I'm talking about.
Me! :- )
o 3 days ago
Answerer 15
You bring a lot of lubrication and yu tell him that if you have sex, YOU are in control. remind him that the vaginal cavity can take 1 nine-inch penis (with lots of foreplay), so things have to go slow
o 4 days ago
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